Men regularly say the wrong things to their girlfriends. When it comes to talking to women, men regularly put their feet directly into their mouth. Let’s take a look at the 12 things you should not ever ask or say to your girlfriend. If you like her and actually want to keep her around, that is.

1. “You are just like my mother!” Comparing your significant other, the object of your desire, to a woman who’s likely twice her age is probably not the smartest choice. Add in the fact that this comparison is almost never made in a flattering way, and you can see why it would make your girlfriend upset. No matter what she says or does, keep this thought inside of your head.