- You Are No Longer The Priority
When you and your sweetheart are head over heels with each other, you will most likely see and feel how much your sweetheart will prioritize you over anything else. He will devote a huge amount of time just to attend to your needs. However, if you start noticing that you are no longer the priority and his work, family, hobbies, friends, are not priorities, too. You may want to double check the case. There may be times that he is just too pre-occupied with something. Then, again, if that pre-occupation is not a “something”, but actually, a “someone” like a specific friend of yours, you have to dig deeper to see what is really going on. Does he or she still do the usual things like texting you when getting home from work? Does he still ask you how your day went? Does he even care if you had a bad day in college or at work? Check all those small things and you can even observe your friend. Are they text buddies now? Do they hang out more often than your sweetheart hangs out with you? Assess and analyze.